We all love someone

In more ways than i could ever care to explain or that they could ever know,i love my family.the matter of how big family is or who can be legally included as 'first' family is highly debetable but it all comes down to a matter of opinion,i mean you can't be forced to love right?yeah i and many others may say but wait a minute is that not a contradiction?when i say that i love my family is it objective or subjective because in the end this makes all the difference,the difference between a son who is always at loggerheads with the father and the one who wanted to be an architect but was forced into medical school by the dad.The bible would be of the opinion that love is a choice therefore objective coz honestly if we were to love someone for who they are(which is what most of us do)then you only love as much as you like of that person and try to live with that other undesirable part.Objectivity on the other hand forces one to put personal feelings aside and love as a commandment,and a choice as well coz you can choose not to in which case there isnt much difference between you and our earlier subjective friend.talk is cheap i know and i also know that i am almost wholly subjective hence the difficulty in coming up with this piece,but events as recent as yesterday which involve pride segregation and lots of other crap(which unfortunately i have to talk about at a later date)forced yours truly to try and address this issue in a satisfactory manner i hope.Hard it may seem but really it is very easy,deep inside each human is an absolutely lovable creature so no excuses(this is for the subjective who always want a reason to and in reality isnt that all of us)